Category Archives: Individual counselling for relationships

Discover how compatible the two of you are.

……According to the Enneagram, you can find out how compatible you are with your partner quite simply by checking out what they called your “Instincts” We are each endowed with 3 specific instincts that are necessary for our survival. While … Continue reading

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Discovering your Enneagram Type, as well as your favourite movie stars.

…….Following on from last week, the first step in understanding yourself and others is to identify what type you have come into this life pre-wired as. The following is a broad overview of the nine types of human nature. As … Continue reading

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Funny, you don’t look twoish.

…..Beyond Freud, beyond Jung, beyond Myers Briggs lies a personality typing system known as the Enneagram. And whether you’re an overachieving pit bull lawyer or a hopelessly romantic wanna-be poet, it’s got your number. I’m a One.   I do have … Continue reading

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Affairs: the 7 reasons why they happen.

…..Most people entering a marriage or long term relationship are doing so hoping and trusting that it will be a monogamous relationship; so the discovery of an affair is a huge betrayal of that bond and trust with devastating effects … Continue reading

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Why women find it difficult to be assertive in their relationships.

I talked in an earlier post on why men find it difficult to express empathy. For women, I have found that one of the most challenging things for them is to stand up for themselves in their relationship; I have … Continue reading

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