Category Archives: Relationship problems
Discover how compatible the two of you are.
……According to the Enneagram, you can find out how compatible you are with your partner quite simply by checking out what they called your “Instincts” We are each endowed with 3 specific instincts that are necessary for our survival. While … Continue reading
Discovering your Enneagram Type, as well as your favourite movie stars.
…….Following on from last week, the first step in understanding yourself and others is to identify what type you have come into this life pre-wired as. The following is a broad overview of the nine types of human nature. As … Continue reading
Affairs: why they happen
…..Last week I mentioned that there are 7 basic reasons why affairs happen. The first three were the Door opening affair, which helps a partner leave and gives a level of safety straight into the next relationship; then the 3 … Continue reading
Affairs: the 7 reasons why they happen.
…..Most people entering a marriage or long term relationship are doing so hoping and trusting that it will be a monogamous relationship; so the discovery of an affair is a huge betrayal of that bond and trust with devastating effects … Continue reading
Have you given up having Rich relationships at home to have a richer business?
Mark rang my office wanting an urgent appointment. He could not hide his devastation. He was absolutely stunned. His wife, Christine, of 12 years, had just dropped the bombshell that morning that she had had enough, and was leaving. He … Continue reading
Are you neglecting your relationship?
Remember the days when you first met your wife or husband? Those wonderful romantic sexy days when you loved being in each other’s company and could talk for hours. You would do those special things for each other just to … Continue reading
Relationship Test. How well do you know your partner?
How well you know each other is a fundamental characteristic of how good your relationship is. When you have a great relationship, you feel close and connected, and feel comfortable sharing with each other about yourself, knowing that you are … Continue reading
Forget relationship counselling: We are just too different.
“We are just too different for our relationship to work, and so relationship counselling is a waste of time”. I had a new client say this to me this week, and it is a common thing for people to think. … Continue reading
Will my partner change if I bring him/her to relationship counselling?
The question of can people change is always an interesting one. The short answer is yes, we can all change absolutely anything about ourselves, if we have a strong enough desire to. So the question many people have on their … Continue reading